Thursday, September 11th
Here is Whitney in the Istanbul airport enjoying one last Starbucks. We had quite an adventure just to get to the terminal. In Albania, most people do not have an address and as yet, there are not any delivery trucks like UPS to peoples homes. So, many Albanians go to Turkey and buy a huge load of goods for novelty shops, box them up and bring them, on the airplane, back home. The problem arises when they get to the ticketing agent and try to get their 10 HUGE boxes checked in with a 1 bag, 40 pound limit. They try to get by this, by asking every person in the line to take one of their boxes and check it in under their name. I was approached by three different people to see if I would be willing to take some of their boxes to the check in. Thankfully, I had a friend tell me that this would happen and I was prepared to say no. I was still quite unbelievable.
Well, Whitney and I are finally on the plane home. It was quite an adventure that God took us on and I have a feeling that we are not done with it yet. However, it was a journey that I thank God for.
Faithful friends and prayer warriors,
We are so thankful to God for His immense mercy to us these last days. I have been overwhelmed by His tender love and the way He has cared for us through His all-sufficient Word and through the body of Christ. We have received so many e-mails of encouragement and prayer support, verses to focus our eyes on Christ, and offers of help. I am still sorting through them all and trying to get back to all of you who gave so much to us in those ways. Whitney and I are going to make a scrapbook with all the updates we sent out, the e-mails that each of you sent to our family, and also all the pictures that we took on our “adventure”. I think it will be a tremendous way for her to look back at God’s faithfulness towards her in the years to come.
Praise God that He answered our prayers for a safe return home. There were a few tense moments when some strange men in the taxi area at the airport tried to convince me that they knew the shuttle driver for our hotel and that they would take us to the hotel. I just prayed fervently that we would be safe while we waited for the arranged hotel shuttle to arrive. Through all the taxi changes, language barrierissues, bag checks, and travelling on 9-11, we arrived safe and sound into the loving arms of Kris and the girls. It is so good to be home!
Before our discharge yesterday, we had our appointment with Dr. Oram. He was very helpful and answered many of my questions. Here is some of the information that I received:
* The doctor was cautiously hopeful about Whitney’s returning vision. He said that he is encouraged that her peripheral vision is slowly returning (it is at 40% now). He thinks that there is the possibility that she may recover 60-70% of her peripheral vision, but he could not give any assurance of the recovery of the vision in the center of her eye.
* I asked the Dr. is he would tell me more details about the specialized eye test (OCT) that Whitney had performed last Monday. He pointed out that in the retinal area she has some blood build up. He also showed me that there was a definite tear in the retina. We will be consulting with a doctor in the states about the retinal tear and the ramifications of this injury.
* There remains, as well, the hemorrhage in the middle part (or visual area) of Whitney’s eye that is causing the blindness in the center of the eye. I tried to ascertain from the Dr. about the possibility of a surgical procedure to clear out this hemorrhage if it does not dissolve on its own. He is hesitant to do any invasive procedure in this very delicate and vascular area because of the possibility of doing more damage than good. He is thinking that it would be better for Whitney to live her life with her impaired peripheral vision and no vision in the center of her eye than to risk disturbing the hemorrhage with surgery. He will reconsider doing surgery if her eye or vision worsens over the next 3 weeks.
* There is still the real possibility that she can have a secondary hemorrhage that would cause more severe damage or complete blindness. During the next 3 weeks Whitney may return to school, but she can not participate in any vigorous activity that would cause this hemorrhage to burst. This will be a difficult task to accomplish; for Whitney, her parents, and her teachers.
* Our Turkish doctor has requested that we follow up with an Albanian ophthalmologist this Saturday who will examine her eye pressure, peripheral vision, and the status of the hemorrhage.
Whitney seems to be responding to her loss of vision quite well. She is mainly concerned with when she can go back to school and play with all of her friends. I am so thankful to the Lord for this acceptance on Whitney’s part. Many people have e-mailed with their own stories of vision loss and how they continue to lead productive and kingdom minded lives. These stories have been so encouraging to us as we look at the very real possibility that Whitney will never have her vision fully restored in her right eye.
As we prepare for the next three weeks of Whitney’s recovery time we ask that you continue to pray for these things:
1. Pray that the hemorrhage would dissolve on its own and that this would lead to the recovery of sight in the center of Whitney’s eye.
2. Pray that the hemorrhage would not rupture or cause any secondary effects as Whitney begins to assimilate back into her normal, 9 year old life.
3. Pray that she would remember the directive of the doctor to avoid vigorous activity, playing rough, and causing jarring movements to her head. All of these are fairly subjective so I don’t really know what her limits are.
4. Pray that we would be able to consult via email or phone with an ophthalmologist in the states to find out more about the retinal tear. We did not receive a satisfactory answer from the Turkish doctor about this aspect of Whitney’s injury.
5. Pray that God would give us wisdom to know if there is anything else we need to do to help correct or prevent more injury.
6. Pray that our insurance company would treat us fairly and pay the expenses that are truly covered under our policy. They have communicated to us that because Whitney’s injury was not “life or death” that some of the expenses incurred in her treatment might not be covered.
7. Pray that Whitney’s heart would continue to be softened to the Lord. In that same vein, pray that we would take the opportunities to reinforce all that we taught her and that we learned in the course of this trial. I don’t want her to just get past this difficulty and then go on business as usual.
8. Pray that each of our girls would see God’s glory and sovereignty through this circumstance.
9. Pray that Kris and I would not allow the day to day activities of life to drown out the lessons that we have learned during this time. We desire to continue to be as desperate for Him each day of our lives as we were during this time of crisis.
I wanted to follow up with some news about the nurse, Eylem. The last 4 days that Whitney and I were in the hospital Eylem was off duty. I never got to see her before we left, share the hope of the gospel with her, or give her the Turkish Bible. I know that God put that burden for her salvation on my heart and so I will continue to pray for her and make it a point to visit her when Whitney and I return to Istanbul in 3 weeks. Who knows, maybe God will use the intervening time to prepare her heart to receive the Word with gladness. Please continue to pray for her salvation.
As Whitney and I drove out of Istanbul I looked over the city horizon and saw an astounding amount of Muslim mosque minarets (the attached photo shows just a glimpse of them). My heart just cried out for God to save these people from the blindness that has gripped them. The darkness of that land is so great and it is evidenced by the mosques that are every few blocks. I did not see one church steeple among the minarets that covered the city’s landscape. When speaking to a local missionary I was not even allowed to say the name of her mission organization over the phone because it is illegal to be a missionary and their phone lines are tapped. Please pray for the missionaries in the country of Turkey as they share their lives and the hope of the gospel to the people of this dark land.
Well, seeing as we are returning to life as “usual” for the next few weeks, this is our last daily update for the time being. I have to admit that I am a little sad that I will not be able to communicate each day with you like I have been for the past 12 days. God has blessed me in so many ways as I read your e-mails and received such courage, hope and joy from the love you extended to us. But, I will be continuing to give regular updates on Whitney’s eye, her spiritual health (as well as that of the rest of our girls), and lots of other things on our family blog at www.stiretestimonial.blogspot.com. Also, I know that some of you began receiving these prayer updates through a friend or at church and you may not be on our regular e-mail list. We send out a monthly e-mail update about our family and ministry as well as a letter by US postal service quarterly. If you would like to be a part of our mailing list, please contact us at www.stirealbania@gmail.com and give us your e-mail address and mailing address and we would be glad to add you.
As I close this last update, I would like quote a prayer by Betty Scott Stam, a martyred missionary to China. God has used Betty’s example of steadfast faith and abandonment to God to challenge me many times over the past 18 years, and He did again during this time of testing. We lift these words up as a daily prayer:
“Lord, I give up all my own plans and purposes, all my own desires and hopes, and accept Thy will for my life. I give myself, my life, my all utterly to Thee to be Thine forever. Use me as Thou wilt, send me where Thou wilt, work out Thy whole will in my life at any cost, now and forever. Amen”
Sustained by His gracious hand,
Chelle (for the Stire family)
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